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Blast From The Past

Posted by Administrator on Thursday, 18 February, 2010

I frequently have people, both puppy buyers and other breeders, ask what I did before starting Westwood Labradoodles.  The answer to that would take many blog posts, as my experiences have been many and varied!  But I decided it might be an interesting exercise to answer that question a bit at a time.

One interesting job I had was detailed in an article in the 1988 Summer/Fall issue of ‘TradesWoman’ journal.  That was long before we saved documents electronically, and until recently I only had it in its original, yellowed magazine form.  But my cousin Brian figured out how to use a optical recognition software program to turn it into a printed document without me having to type the whole thing in.  What a clever man!  Thanks Brian.  So here it is, officially readable.  I will post the whole article in several installments, so stayed tuned!

That’s how the ad read. Teaching or construction experience? What kind of a combination is that? I’m one for two, I say aloud. But construction experience? I helped my father panel our basement, but that hardly counts. My mind wanders as I try to take stock of my position. It’s been almost a year since I quit medical school after two and a half years of good grades, enraged battles, and frustration with the system. Fifteen thousand dollars in debt, living on a credit card, unable to even get potential employers to answer a cover letter (who would believe that someone would leave medical school voluntarily and permanently?), I am at rock bottom. I decide to answer the ad.

Elation is not too strong a word to describe my feelings when that ad resulted in an interview. At first glance everything at the weatherization school appeared very white collar. I was interviewed in an ordinary elementary school classroom by a man wearing an expensive suit and tie. Within ten minutes of the interview’s beginning he told me I would be one of six called back to do a presentation on any topic of my choosing. As he led me on a tour of the building showing me lab areas where students learn to hang doors, weatherstrip windows, and insulate walls, my thoughts were almost too scattered for me to pick up what he was saying about the facility and its students.

“We’re really looking for is a good teacher. If they can teach we can teach them the subjects they need to know.”

“He wants me to teach weather stripping? I’m a science teacher.”

“The students come from all over the state for three to five days at a time. You would be teaching in a team with another instructor.”

“Wow! He really means it.  He’s really interested in me.”

My free flow thoughts stopped dead in their proverbial tracks as we crossed a threshold and I came face to face with a woman, taller than me (most are), built like a weightlifter.

“And this is one of our other instructors, Lynn.” With an unbelievably wide grin she extended her hand, and, looking me in the eye said, “Hey boss, let’s hire her.”

I wanted the job so badly I dreamed about it every night. The days leading to my presentation dragged unbearably, with nothing to do but go over and over my ten-minute presentation on the anatomy and specialization in the brain. He had said to pick a topic I was comfortable with. My practices alternated with frantic affirmations, “Good luck to me and all that I do, and good luck to me in this job too!!”

As I rolled into my well-rehearsed presentation for real, part of me was observing my observers. “So all the instructors will be in on the choice of a new team member. . …..how egalitarian. Six men, all bearded hippies, and a woman Are they looking for someone new to serve the coffee?”

The presentation was followed by a round-robin question and answer, “One of your students is falling behind because he can’t read. What do you do?” “A student calls you an asshole in front of the class, what do you do?”  “If we hired you would you be willing to grow a beard?”  Without hesitation I reply, “If you supply the hormones, I’ll supply the beard.”

They must have been looking for a smart ass because there I was, my first day on the job. They led me to a  bookshelf six feet tall, four feet wide and full of tomes on construction methods,  heat loss theory and weatherization procedures.  “Read these,”  I was told, “and when you’re tired come out to the garage and well find something else for you to do.”

“This is alright,” I said to myself. ‘being a student is something I’m good at.”   I plunged into chapters on grading of lumber and nailing patterns.

Hours later my brain was aching and I obediently went to the garage. with no idea of what to expect. It certainly was unexpected. The garage was large enough to accommodate four school buses, and inside it they were building a life-size house. The foundation wall surrounding the crawlspace was done, and l was assigned to nail the cross bridging between the floor joists over the crawlspace. As I by flat on my back, in complete darkness except for the trouble light that was blinding my  left eye, swinging (very inexpertly) a hammer four inches from my face, I wondered what the hell I had gotten myself into.

I struggled to improve my manual skills over the next three weeks, knowing that when the students arrived at the beginning of the next quarter they would be scrutinizing the quality of the props on which they practiced.  What I wasn’t prepared for was the enthusiasm with which they would scrutinize me.

But I looked forward to the arrival of the new quarter and the students. The three preceding weeks had been physically demanding and I had arrived at home each evening exhausted. My biceps, as well as a number of other muscles were unaccustomed to the rigors of rough carpentry.  On more than one occasion I had provided comic relief for my co-workers. They really enjoyed the sight of me wrestling with bales of shingles weighing 80 pounds.  Even better were the four by eight sheets of plywood or drywall which, when hoisted to my shoulders became instant sails, threatening to whisk my 105 pound body from the roof.  But I expected to be more comfortable in the classroom, observing the classes as preparation for teaching them.  I was wrong.

End of the Year Musings

Posted by Administrator on Sunday, 3 January, 2010

Facebook had an interesting application that would randomly choose posts, or ‘status updates’ from throughout the year and compile them into a collage of words.  I thought it was an interesting composite of my year, so here it is!

2009…….The Year in Facebook….and what other kind of year is there?

Helene Roussi :

is cracking up that three dogs racing around the yard sound like a herd of elephants as they break through the ice crust~~is taking a gingerbread out of the oven, lemon sauce is on the stove~~is completely po’d that a CA court ruled private schools can kick kids out for being gay~~is done sledding with the kids and now understands why you don’t see adults snowboarding. Staying up for very long at all means you are going VERY fast when you fall~~is wondering how to convince one goofy dog named Reese that the boys room~~WON a game of Lexulous by 28 points and is hungry for more! ~~says kids are good for a laugh. Shane,reading the paper:”The Cavs beat the Heat.” Gus(serious):”They’re named the Calves?Why not just name them the Cows?”~~ is keeping a tally….1AM, 4 puppies, 2 espressos, 1 load of laundry~~so far is not sure whether to be amazed or scared that in his first Scrabble game her 9 year olds very first word (bipedal) scored 78 pts. OMG what have I done?~~figures an hour of sleep should be enough for anyone~~is fried~~Survived the second prelim black belt test. Golly do I have work to do before June 20~~Is it just me or does anyone else get teary-eyed reading that Hubble has been released for the last time? How embarrassingly geeky~~The black belt test is over. Congratulations to my teammates……you guys are awesome!~~Does anyone else get demoralized when their Word IQ on Scramble DROPS?????~~SI is here, the best week of the year ~~Anyone have any suggestions on places to stay near Burlington VT?~~ Was anyone else seriously bummed to hear the Cat Stevens song, “If you Wanna Sing Out Sing Out” on a commercial? Sacrilege~~ The world is different than when I was a kid~~

Facebook also had a photo collage application.  I love my dogs, and my work with them, but much of the time it seems as though that is all there is in my life.  My life would be pretty unbalanced if that were true, so I was happy to see that my life in 2009, at least in Facebook words and pictures,  DID consist of something besides the dogs!


Typical Holiday At Westwood

Posted by Administrator on Saturday, 28 November, 2009

Puppies are going home!  This is always a bittersweet time.  I am pretty good at not getting TOO attached to puppies in the first couple months they are here.  I tell myself from the beginning that they are not my puppies; I am raising them for someone else.  I love them and care for them and get to know all their little quirks, knowing I will be letting them go soon.  And I am pretty good at that for about 2 months.  If they stay much longer than that I start to get attached despite my best efforts.  I am just getting to the crucial junction with these two litters! Who can NOT get attached to faces like this?

Daisy Double Doodle pups

Daisy Double Doodle pups

So puppies are going home, and it is a good thing.  Families are excited, and that is part of what makes this all worth while.

A Doodle puppy of our own, a dream come true

A Doodle puppy of our own, a dream come true

This weekend I was planning puppy deliveries around our holiday travel plans.  One puppy was going to the same town where my sister lives, so the plan was celebrate Thanksgiving with my sister’s family the weekend after Thanksgiving, bringing the puppy with us.  In addition, a puppy was to be delivered to a town half way between Columbus and my sister’s house, so we were going to bring those folks their puppy as we passed through.

But before we could even head out for the holiday, I needed to take care of a minor detail. Sunny, my mini F3 Labradoodle, came into season last week, and according to my calculations she would ovulate on Thanksgiving.  Without fail, I have some kind of doggie event EVERY holiday, so this was not unexpected.  So Sunny is at our house to be bred, and her suitor, Zabba,  a mini F1B Goldendoodle, is also here, visiting from his guardian in Cincinnati.

zabbaPS1

Zabba: F1B mini Red Goldendoodle

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Sunny: F3 Mini Labradoodle

Our house has been like a scene from a teen love flick, with young lovers pining for each other from afar….in this case from across a gate in the back hall.  Well, one young lover, anyway.  Zabba is WHINING and WHINING in frustration at not being able to reach Sunny.  Sunny is not so sure about this whole thing

(this is the first time I am breeding her).  In fact, over the three days they have both been here, she has not become interested in Zabba at all.  Normally when a female is close to ovulating her hormones take over and she will be interested in ANY male.  But Sunny is not receptive at all.  She is nervous, not really eating, very clingy to me, and growls and snaps vigorously, shrieking in indignation, at Zabba if he comes anywhere close to her.  I became concerned that maybe we had missed her fertile window, and took her in for a blood test.  It showed that she DID ovulate on Thanksgiving! So the prime days for breeding are Saturday and Monday. My plan is to allow them to breed on Saturday morning before we leave.  Then Zabba will come with us to my sister’s house, and Sunny’s family will pick her up and she will spend the weekend with her guardians, returning for another breeding on Monday.

I spend Friday getting the two puppies that are being delivered on Saturday ready: baths, groomed, trimmed, contracts and puppy kits ready, final meeting plans made with the new owners, it is all very hectic, but seems to be going well.  Then at 9 PM my younger son begins vomiting.  An hour later, my older son follows suit.  I spent the night on the floor in a sleeping bag in the room between the two rooms where they are camped out, alternating  between napping for a few minutes at a time and dumping their buckets.

By Saturday morning the worst of it seems to be over and my kids are sleeping.  Although we are clearly NOT going to be traveling to my sister’s house, I still need to make plans to deliver the puppies, AND to breed Zabba and Sunny.  That is not going well at all.  Sunny is still FREAKING out if Zabba even walks into the room.  Her guardians are scheduled to pick her up at 9AM, so at 8:15 AM I decide to move to Plan B; I will collect semen from Zabba and artificially inseminate Sunny.  I collect from Zabba, who is more than willing to donate, and I have just begun the insemination when the doorbell rings.  It is Sunny’s guardians, eager to have her home, and early.  In a comical scene I tell my partner to send them home…I’m BUSY! While Sunny is certainly more receptive to me than she was to  Zabba, I am pretty tired by the time we are done.  She may only be 20 lbs, but holding a 20 lb dog upside down (the head has to be lower than the hindquarters for an insemination!) for 10 minutes makes for a LONG 10 minutes.  Especially when I have been up all night with vomiting kids. Sunny is pretty tired too. She is so hormonal she hasn’t been eating well, she hasn’t been sleeping well, and her entire schedule seems topsy-survey.  As I leave the kitchen she seems to be settling in to a nap next to the stove.

Just as I am wrapping up the emails to the folks I will be meeting in a few hours, I hear Sunny whine a couple times in the kitchen.  Poor dog is just tired, I think. A few minutes later, I hear a shout in the kitchen, and a crash.  I burst into the kitchen in time to see my younger son starting to shake poop off his bare foot.  “DON’T SHAKE YOUR FOOT!  SIT ON YOUR BUTT.”  It turns out he had opened the other door to the kitchen and his first step through the door landed his foot in a pile of poop.  He slid, almost falling to the floor.  I guess his excellent balance from his martial arts training kept him upright in the end, upright enough that his instinct was to try to shake the poop off his foot. Poor Sunny had been so distracted this morning that she apparently had forgotten to take care of business while she was out.  She tried to tell me by whining and I ignored her.  Now I barely escaped having to clean poop off the ceiling and it’s barely 9AM.

Road Trip

Posted by Administrator on Saturday, 28 November, 2009

As Sloopy and Daisy settled in to caring for their puppies, I found myself becoming increasingly overwhelmed by the home schooling schedule combined with my other responsibilities.  In addition to the house and kids and puppies, I am also a massage therapist and work office hours with clients around those other tasks.  It’s a lot of…….stuff!

The program I chose for schooling for my kids at home is an online charter school that is a combination of ‘virtual’ computer work and traditional book work.  To say I was not enjoying the process would be a vast understatement. Since the pups were at ages where they were stable, and the moms were doing most of the work, I decided to pass the puppy responsibilities on to my dog-sitter (thanks Erica!).  I would take advantage of the scheduling flexibility that this type of schooling afforded, and take my kids on a trip.  We packed the camping stuff and headed to Assateague Island.

Pony on Assateague Island

Pony on Assateague Island

Bonfire on the beach

Bonfire on the beach

Westwood Doodle on the Dunes!

Westwood Doodle on the Dunes!

It was a good week, although we did not stay as long as we had planned due to the arrival of a real ‘Nor’easter’ in the middle of the week.  We knew it would be arriving from conversations with the park rangers, and got off the island just as it started to rain.  I later spoke with someone who stayed (in a camper) through the storm and she said it was a good thing we tent campers headed out when we did!

Daisy Adds Her First Litter to Our Program

Posted by Administrator on Saturday, 28 November, 2009

It is always a little anxiety-producing when a mom whelps her first litter, and I seemed to have been going through that a lot in recent months (Reese, and Sloopy’s recent litters had also been firsts for them).  But Daisy did a great job and things went smoothly, although, of course, her litter was born in the middle of the night!  Three cream boy and two chocolate girl mini North American Retriever puppies made their appearance in the wee hours of 9/24.

Daisy and Scooter's mini North American Retriever (Double Doodle) puppies
Daisy and Scooter’s mini North American Retriever (Double Doodle) puppies

Home school had started for my kids a few days after Sloopy’s litter was born, and now, a month later, Daisy’s litter was also keeping me busy.  I was spending the days alternating between working with my kids and cleaning up after moms and pups, and nights catching up on puppy applications and emails preparing new owners for the arrivals of their puppies.  September had blended in to October.

Busy Days Are Here Again

Posted by Administrator on Saturday, 28 November, 2009

As summer was ending I did something I had never done before……whelped two litters within a month of each other!

I plan the litters at Westwood so that I never have more than two ‘on the ground’, as we say, at the same time.  Puppies are an INCREDIBLE amount of work, and I would not have the time for them, or for the investment in time that I make communicating with the families that are getting ready for their arrival.  So I have had two litters here at once before, but one litter was always within a week or so of going to new homes when the other arrived.  So all of August was spent preparing for Sloopy’s litter  to arrive at the end of August, and Daisy’s to arrive at the end of September.

In addition, it became clear as summer was coming to an end that my older son was not going to lottery in to a different middle school. The school he was at last year was a disaster, with daily fights involving tables, as well as fists, being thrown, as well as a required police presence.  We knew he could not go back there, and when he did not lottery in to a different school I had to begin plans to home school him.  I already knew I would continue to home school my younger son, but planning for schooling for two very different kids, in different grades and with very different needs, was a daunting task.

Sloopy’s puppies were born on 8/27, a litter of 5 mini Double Doodles with Beau as the father. This was Sloopy’s first litter, and it was greatly anticipated.  She did a great job!  One of the puppies was a phantom (a dark puppy with tan markings like a Doberman)

Sloopy's mini North American Retriever litter included a phantom puppy!

Sloopy's mini North American Retriever litter included a phantom puppy!

The puppies were a delight, and the phantom puppy ended up being the one chosen to be trained for service by WAGS4KIDS.  This was the third puppy I donated to WAGS4KIDS.  Wendy, the director of that organization, is always a joy to work with.  Her program places the puppies in the Marion Correctional Institution for training, a win-win situation for everyone.  Here is ‘Petey’ before he left for prison!

Getting ready to leave for service training by WAGS4KIDS!

Getting ready to leave for service training by WAGS4KIDS!